Wednesday, June 13, 2007

shock.

james got a tattoo today.
i am in shock.
i am really upset about it.

he tells me everything will be ok and i am overreacting and getting upset for no reason.
but i don't know.

so yeah. just super super sad tonight.
i don't even know what to do.
and i have no one to talk to about it because i only feel like i could talk to deepa and she has a tattoo, so she won't understand. and with the whole situation with nicole last week... i just don't feel comfortable talking to anyone else about it because i think they will just be too quick to pass judgement on james. i don't want that.

i did tell my sister, and she said that a tattoo doesn't change the person he is on the inside and that's what's important.
he is still james.
so maybe i should try to calm down about this whole thing.
easier said than done though.

i keep looking at the calendar wishing this was just a big april fools joke or something.
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3 comments:

Alyssa said...

I understand. A tatoo would totally freak me out! But it's true that he is the same person...there will always be more to learn about each other.

June 13, 2007 at 5:51 AM
Susan said...

Yeah, I'm not a big fan of tattoos either, but it really doesn't change who he is or change your relationship. I think you need to look for the root of the problem...ask yourself what it is that really upsets you about it. Is it that you don't like James having a tattoo, or is it really the fact that he didn't talk to you about it first or include you in his decision? Unless you have a big-time moral dislike for tattoos (which would be understandable), it seems that the real issue at heart is the situation itself, not the actual having of a tattoo. Maybe you're feeling a lack of communication, or maybe you feel uncomfortable because you didn't have any control.

Just some thoughts I've been mulling in my head the last day or so. I don't know...I may be wrong, but I kept feeling like I should mention those ideas to you. Hope things are better!

June 14, 2007 at 6:13 PM
Susan said...

Amy, I hope what I've said will help you (or at least get you thinking) and not just make you more upset. I really don't want to make things worse!

June 14, 2007 at 6:14 PM

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